the issue: homosexuality

i have been wondering how we deal with the issue of homosexuality in a postmodern church. are we "opening and accepting?" or are we "open and transforming?" Even still, if one postmodern/emerging church says it's ok, and another says it's wrong - is that cool? do they allow each other to have the same point of view? if they differ, can they still worship togather, once in a while? i have heard that the word for "homosexual" should actualy be translated as "pedifile" - i wonder. it seems to put a new light on the subjest - anyway, what do you think -

pax
john